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Resist the Snark and Be Happy

Being courteous can be challenging in these fractious times, but politeness is much better for your well-being.

First published in The Atlantic on August 7, 2025

by Arthur C. Brooks, The Atlantic
August 14, 2025 | reading time: 6 Min.
A dying culture invariably exhibits personal rudeness,” wrote Robert Heinlein in his 1982 futuristic novel, Friday. “A loss of politeness, of gentle manners, is more significant than is a riot.” What, 40 years ago, were the science-fiction adventures of a technologically enhanced “artificial person” turned out also to be prophecy when we consider today’s digital networks of anonymous humans and bots, conversations between people and humanlike artificial intelligence, and a cratering of courtesy. This loss of gentle manners at almost every level is attributable, at least in part, to our adoption of these technologies..

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